These days in modern cities there is always a section of distance between individuals. People are much more intrapersonal and introverted than they used to be. People still have passionate and love in their deep mind but they just no longer showing them to who they care and love. People are afraid to open their heart to the world. The true-self is hidden in the hard core in order to keep it safe and away from lie and violence.
Therefore the national holiday I want to set up is the “I LOVE U” day. This is a day you can show your love and grateful to the people you love and thankful to. The day gives everyone the chance to show their love out without any worry or conceal. No one will be teasing on the “I LOVE U” day for showing their love. And in fact you will be encouraged to speak your love to whoever you love: your friends, your family, your teachers, your lovers.
The date for the holiday will be on the 21st of November. I decide this date for reasons. First, the reason for the day in November is that pronounce of “I LOVE” in English is similar to eleven. Then the letter “U” is the 21st letter in the alphabet. Thus, the “I LOVE U” day will be on the November the twenty-first.
This day will be really good in the society, since everyone is so busy and sometimes forgets to express love to the one they love. According to Ministry of Civil Affairs in China, the divorce rate is increasing year by year. Why does this happen? Always at the beginning of a romantic relationship, lovers show their love very often and believed in their love undoubtedly. But as time goes by, the couple becomes busy with living and does not have that much idle time to show their love to the other apparently. They surely still love each other and think their lover will think in the same way. However, human are creatures that always think too much and easily feel insecure, so the wife/husband start to think their lover does not love them anymore. And the decreasing of trust between the couple will always lead to divorce. Thus, the “I LOVE U” day can be a valuable opportunity for the lovers to say their love loudly and keep the love permanent.
In addition, by establishing “I LOVE U” day it can enhance the relationship between the teenager and his family. The teen in adolescents are always quite rebel and want to break the bond with his family. They do not want to be controlled by adults and think their parents just want to force him to do the thing he does not like. They think their parents do not love them like they used to. Since when they were little kids, the parents always let them do whatever they want to and always said they love them. Here is the right time for the “I LOVE U” day to show up. On this day, the parent can say their love to their children sincerely and listen to the children’s responds. Also the children can express themselves calmly and bear in mind their parents always love them and want them to have a happy future. By showing their love to the kids, the parent can reconstruct their relationships with the kid and even make them more solid. And by knowing they are loved, the teenager will understand their parents better.
With the expression of love the world will be warm and amiable. People will connect to each other more tightly. Showing love is one of the easiest ways to make yourself and others happy. And happiness is one of the greatest powers in the world that no one can really defeat it. So say your love on the “I LOVE U” day and make the world a better place~